Learn a New Parenting Approach that will get You and Your Child More of What You Really Want
Empowerment Parenting Will
Improve your relationship with your child, while maintaining your parental role and your meeting your responsibilities.
Enhance communication with your child so you ’ll know what is really going on in his or her life.
Learn to use the language that your child is most likely to hear to enhance your effectiveness.
Teach your child how to make good decisions even when you are not around.
Get the cooperation and respect you deserve from your child.
Learn techniques to prevent your biggest fears from occurring.
Disengage the innate power struggle and strategically align with your child ’s resistance to leverage your advantage
Dear Moms, Dads and Caregivers,
When my sons were 13 and 15 years-old, my husband died of cancer and I had to raise them alone.
Initially, things were totally out of control. My husband had been the disciplinarian in the home and I was the total pushover. I was the understanding parent who was as permissive as my husband was strict. You might say together we balanced each other out but imagine what happened when he was no longer there. Chaos!
All I can say is without the concepts of Empowerment Parenting, my children and I would have been lost. It truly saved my life and probably the lives of my children. In order to successfully navigate the dangers of childhood, children require a healthy balance of discipline, love, respect and support.
Are you currently a parent, step-parent or someone responsible for the parenting of a child?
Concerned about keeping them safe while they navigate dangerous times in their lives?
Concerned about maintaining a positive relationship with your child as they grow older?
Do you sometimes wonder who your child has become?
Are you at a loss at what to do differently?
Are you just holding your breath waiting for the latest storm to pass?
Does punishment seem ineffective with your child? Are you someone who simply wants to maintain the already positive relationship you have with your children?
If you only have time to read one parenting book or are confused by the sea of parenting books out there (many with contradictory advice) then purchase, read, and put to use this ebook. This ebook will help you empower yourself as a parent and will help you to empower your child who can then empower him/herself!
--Gregory F. Pozzi, MEd, LPC
Many parents, when faced with a child going through a difficult period, will ask, “Why do I need to change? I’m not the one with the problem.” In effect, that question is all wrong! Who is it with the problem? Does the child come to the parent and say, “I really think I need some help to better control my behavior. I’m a little out of control!” I don’t know about you, but those were never words uttered in my house, although I believe they were certainly true at times.
Who’s the one with the problem? Who’s the one experiencing discomfort with the situation? I’m not asking who is “misbehaving”; I’m asking who is in the most distress over the events that exist? You are—the parent. That’s good. Now that problem ownership has been identified, the next question is fairly simple.
Whose behavior can you control? That’s right. Whose behavior are you able to change? If you were able to change your child’s behavior, you probably wouldn’t be reading this entry right now. Sure, you may be able to raise the stakes or make the punishment so severe, that your child will do what you want, but at what cost? What does it do to your relationship? Also, what do you think he or she does when you aren’t around to see? And if you are still holding fast to the belief that you can control your child’s behavior, have you ever attempted to feed a baby who didn’t want to be fed? Enough said!
Whose behavior can you control? That’s right. Yours! So, if you have a problem situation, what is the most logical thing to do? Again, you already know the answer! Decide what YOU can do differently to affect change in the situation. You can certainly keep doing what you’ve been doing but you are likely to continue to get the same results. How are they working for you so far? How much longer do you want to keep getting the results you’ve been getting? That’s the reason you need to look at changing what you are doing.
When you do, you tap into that awesome power within you. Your power source comes from focusing your energies on the things you can control—your own thoughts and behaviors. When you do that, you can achieve tremendous results but you have to give up the notion that you can force others to do things your way. Once you do, there’s no telling the effects the adjustments in your own behavior will make.
Here is Just a Sample of the Benefits You Can Expect
You and your child will begin to communicate in a more positive way.
You will receive more cooperation and respect.
You will discover positive things that you can do to improve your relationship with your child all by yourself.
You and your child will become closer as you increase communication and mutual respect.
You will be comfortable in knowing your child is making good decisions when you are not around.
Just the information…and the knowledge you need to help you succeed as a parent
Think about it, parenting is probably the most important job you’ll ever undertake and the one for which you are the least prepared and trained. All we have is the model of how our parents parented us. Even if you were lucky enough to have a stupendous example of parenting, what was successful thirty or forty years ago, may no longer be effective because the context in which we are operating as parents is vastly different from the one from which our parents operated.
You update your computer programming don’t you? Why wouldn’t you update your parenting skills, as well? What worked for your five year-old, will probably not work as well for your 15 year-old. Empowerment Parenting provides the answers.
Why should YOU listen to me???
BECAUSE, I have been where you are!!!!
Chances are you haven’t heard of me but my name is Kim Olver, MS, NCC, LPC, RTC! All these initials don't mean much unless you know that I have been teaching these concepts since 1988 and have raised two boys alone through their teenage years.
I have taught and/or trained hundreds of people, many of whom were parents. I worked in the field of foster care, helping foster parents gain the skills they needed to master that difficult task of raising someone else’s children, who had most often been through some incredibly challenging circumstances in their young lives.
I know about parenting. I have extensively studied the programs that are available and find Empowerment Parenting to be the most effective. There is no one thing that works with all children, which is the attraction of Empowerment Parenting. This is no cookie cutter mold. Empowerment Parenting treats every parent and every child as an individual.
If you have more than one child, I am certain that you already know, what works for one, may be completely ineffective with another. Empowerment Parenting provides an explanation for this. AND, BEST OF ALL, I can SHARE with you the information you need to maximize your effectiveness as a parent!
Empowerment Parenting is an exciting way to parent today's child. More punishment, control and coercion is NOT the answer, neither is abdicating control to your children! We cannot continue to parent our children the way we did when they were younger children, or even the way our parents parented us. The world is different! Children are different! If we do not learn new innovations in parenting, our efforts will likely be ineffective at best, and actually destructive at their worst.
Buy this e-Book and learn about the inherent conflict between parents and their children, as well as ways to circumvent it. You can reasonably insure your child’s safety and still maintain a positive relationship.
Once you learn the things you will need to know about yourself and your child in this e-Book, you’ll realize that it isn’t so difficult, after all, to relate to your child, still stay the parent, and keep your child safe at the same time. Being the parent of a child doesn’t have to be burdened with frustration, conflict and worry. It can be fun, creative and relatively simple!
Five Reasons to take Action Right NOW:
1. No Risk! You have our 100%-365-day money-back guarantee!
2. Save Time! The task of raising your child is not going to magically get easier. Don’t waste precious time to learn the secrets of navigating this time period without frustration and aggravation!
3. Save Money! This e-Book is cheap and it’s loaded with information and tips on improving your relationships. One hour of individual coaching can cost up to $100.00! Purchase this e-Book and start improving your relationship with your child TODAY!
4. Your child will begin to share information with you! When employing Empowerment Parenting, your children will know that you are supporting them in getting what they need and will begin to see you as an ally instead of the enemy. Because you have more information, you will be better able to help your child avoid the trap of dangerous situations.
5. Empower your Child! You will be able to teach your child the skills he/she needs to make critical decisions gradually on his/her own with which they are faced when you are not around. Empowerment Parenting is about helping children assess the pros and cons of decisions with which they are faced. You gradually add more freedom, as they gain responsible behaviors to manage that freedom. In so doing, your child will learn to make good decisions, while still having your support at home.
Empowerment Parenting e-Book
Ninety (90) Pages of Parenting Advice from a Licensed Relationship Coach
Start Improving the Relationship You Have with your Child Now!
Includes our 23 page Empowerment Parenting Action Book containing all the worksheets to complete each chapter
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Includes our 23 page Empowerment Parenting Action Book
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You're my customer. And if you're not happy, I look bad. So if you're not happy with what you discover from our Empowerment Parenting eBook , then I don't expect ... or want ... to keep your money. If after applying these principles for up to one year, you are not completely satisfied with the results, simply send me an email and I'll happily refund your money in full and you get to keep the special Tip Sheet as my gift. Start getting the results you want now.
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If after reading this letter you still aren’t convinced, you have more questions or simply want some more information, please email kim@TheRelationshipCenter.biz or phone me at 708-957-6047. I will be happy to talk with you.
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Kim Olver, Coach, Speaker & Author of
Leveraging Diversity at Work &
Secrets of Happy Couples,
P.O. Box 2666, Country Club Hills, IL 60478
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