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Dear Fellow Self-Development Enthusiast,
If you’re like me, you often find yourself wondering why you and the people around you do the things you do. Before learning Choice Theory®, I would often just shake my head at some of the things those close to me would do. Then, I learned Choice Theory® and began looking at the choices I was making in relation to the "craziness" around me. That was both frustrating and empowering. I learned that ANYTHING could happen in my life and I could handle it based on what I chose to do or think. It was like I was handed the genie in the lamp and told I could have all my wishes for the rest of my life. Now, don’t get me wrong—“bad things” still happen in my life but with my understanding of Choice Theory®, I can now manage anything life has to throw at me. I feel very powerful and free. Sound good?
You too can have that ability. Choice Theory® can help you in every aspect of your life—it becomes the new way you view the world. When you apply these concepts, you will become a better person, a better mother or father, a better life partner, a better employee or supervisor and overall you will have more peace in your life. Your relationships with other people will become more satisfying and you will move closer to those you most care about.
Stop believing that some degree of unhappiness is necessary in this life and that relationships are always difficult and tumultuous. It doesn’t have to be that way! You can be happy and satisfied in your relationships. All it takes is some adjustments in the things you are doing and the thoughts that dominate your life. Learn the concepts of Choice Theory® and see the difference it will make. |
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You may be asking yourself why do YOU have to change the things you do and the things you think, especially when you know it’s everyone around you who is creating misery in your life. If only your husband would be more romantic or your wife would cook more often, then things would be great. If only your children would do what they are told and not argue so much. If only your boss would appreciate your work, then your life would be perfect, right?
While I can agree that it would be awesome if we could get everyone in our lives to do things the way we want them done, I don’t believe that’s very realistic. In fact, I know that in our best attempt to get others to cooperate with us, we often use some negative behaviors like complaining, nagging, criticizing, blaming, threatening, punishing and bribing. Does this sound like anything you do or that others do to you? In Choice Theory®, we call those behaviors the Deadly Relationship Habits and we attempt to help you rid them from your life by replacing them with the Caring Habits instead.
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In the meantime, who is the one in distress? If your husband or wife isn’t being the partner you wish he or she would be, whose most unhappy—you or your partner? If your children aren’t cooperating, who’s in the most distress—you or the children? If your boss isn’t appreciating you, who is most upset—you or the boss? Without knowing the particulars, I would guess it’s you! If I’m right, that’s the reason you need to adjust what you are doing because you can! Trying to get others to do what you want them to is a frustrating undertaking because often they don’t do things the way you would want them to. Funny, but they have their own way of doing things that doesn’t always match what you want.
When you focus on your own behavior, you are empowered because that is something over which you have some effect. Stop wasting your time attempting to control others and in the process becoming someone you don’t recognize. Learn how you can be happier and more satisfied by making some adjustment in what you are doing. It’s a very exciting journey!
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What is Choice Theory®? Choice Theory® takes the mystery out of behavior—yours and theirs. It provides and explanation for why we do the things we do. Choice Theory ® explains how a person’s perceptions shape their reality and teaches the four components of behavior. Armed with this new knowledge, problem conceptualization becomes much easier and the path to taking effective action is clearer. One of the things I like best about Choice Theory® is its wide-spread application—you can use it in your personal, as well as your professional life. It provides transferable skills for everyday life. Choice Theory® helped me to become a better counselor, mother, life partner, friend and a better all around person. When you truly embrace its teachings, Choice Theory® becomes a way of life instead of a hypothetical theory of human behavior. And, if you act today, you will be enrolled in a Basic Intensive Week of training in the ideas and concepts of Dr. William Glasser’s Reality Therapy, Choice Theory®, Lead Management and Quality School Program. This week of training is approved through the William Glasser Institute and counts toward the first step in the Reality Therapy certification process. Here’s some of what I’ll be sharing with you:
* The seven keys to strong relationships. * A model to help you take effective control of your life. * How to utilize a four-step approach to problem-solving and behavior change. * How to create a successful plan and maximize its achievement. * The four essential components of behavior.
Focusing on your own choices is most conducive to behavior change, even with the most disturbing people and events. You really can make a huge difference in your level of happiness and life satisfaction! The bad news is: It’s all up to you. The good news is: It’s all up to you. Are you ready for the challenge? |
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If after reading this letter you still aren’t convinced, you have more questions or simply want some more information, please email kim@TheRelationshipCenter.biz or phone me at 708-957-6047. I will be happy to talk with you.
Make today the day you want it to be! Unleash the power within you.
Kim Olver The Relationship Center (708) 957-6047
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Past Participant’s Comments
“I have been taking transformational, spiritual and self-development classes for over 30 years. This includes one day trainings, along with on going Buddhist training, numerous retreats and conferences and extended programs on various topics and I will say that Kim's class was one of the best I have ever taken. It was complete, enough time for feedback/evaluations and she taught in a way that no matter what learning strength someone had she made sure she played to that strength. Kim made it fun and interesting. I enjoyed getting to know all the class members.” ---Margaret Lutzke, Waynesboro, PA "I can use Choice Theory® at my workplace but also with my personal and everyday life. It was one of the best trainings I’ve had yet. This week of training has been a life-changing event for me!" ---Sue Myers, East Berlin, PA “I think Kim has an excellent way of filtering her knowledge of CT/RT in a way that individuals can understand.” ---Nora Ehrig, Ennaus, PA marsky@enter.net “I feel that Kim Olver is an outstanding speaker. She has a very down-to-earth approach that makes things more understandable. Kim has an outgoing, very personable personality, which makes her teaching more interesting". ---Teresa Murray, Towanda, PA “Great tools to help in learning process. Very nice job with explanations.” ---Gina Bellanca, Wilkes-Barre, PA "After taking Reality Therapy with Kim, I came away wanting more information on the process. She was so stimulating and the classes went so quickly, I was stunned the end came so quickly. The learning experience was more gratifying than expected. Kim treats everyone as if they are an old friend making her way of teaching like putting on an old comfortable sweater. Thanks Kim for everything." ---Carmene Jones, Chicago, IL “This training really opened my mind to thinking more about my Quality World and what I can be doing to achieve it. I will be working more on myself and my goals and I now feel empowered to do it!” ---Nikki Rohrback, Osceola Mills, PA “The training was a lot of fun. There was a lot of interaction that helped create a great learning environment.” ---Michelle Bennett, Williamsport, PAmbennet1@hotmail.com |
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Attend this Inspiring Workshop
There are several different weeks from which to choose.
Only $500.00 for four & half days of intensive training on
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Cancellation You will receive your money back in full should you cancel prior to 60-days of the beginning of the workshop. If you cancel between 30 and 60 days of the workshop starting date, you will receive 50% back. If you cancel between 30 days prior up to the opening day of the training, you will receive 25% of your registration fee back. |
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Attend this Inspiring Workshop
There are several different weeks from which to choose.
Only $500.00 for four & half days of intensive training on
*******
Cancellation You will receive your money back in full should you cancel prior to 60-days of the beginning of the workshop. If you cancel between 30 and 60 days of the workshop starting date, you will receive 50% back. If you cancel between 30 days prior up to the opening day of the training, you will receive 25% of your registration fee back. |
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What the five Basic Needs are and how they determine your behavior, actions and who you are. |
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What is a Quality World and the Perceived World and how they affect your behavior. |
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How to let go of issues you have with Control |
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How to Improve Relationships in your life |
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How to Adjust your Behavior and finally create the happy, peaceful and fulfilling life you deserve. |
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Take control of your life. |
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Increase your inner peace and satisfaction. |
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Get more of what you want out of your life. |
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Improve your important relationships. |